Cross Posted From
Article Of Faith:
Well, he did write
"Everybody's Got a Hungry Heart", after all (or was he just experiencing
"The Rising"?). News comes today that
The Boss has separated from Mrs. Boss, Patty Scalfia, his wife of 20 years. The reason, apparently is a 9/11 widow Bruce met shortly after 9/11.
In discussion with my one of my peeps
Chris Renaldo who writes for
The Sunday Paper down the road in Atlanta, it was pointed out to me that Bruce is losing his anti-Republican cred when he pisses on his own moral standing ("family values") by carrying on with another woman. Those of us on the left who love Bruce have to be disappointed in this turn of events.
Renaldo also raises the specter of 9/11 and what that means: "Right or wrong, I think people (maybe Ann Coulter was right... god how it makes me nauseous to even type those words) are going to start asking themselves if
losing someone in 9/11 gives you a "hall pass" in terms of your personal behavior, etc. It just seems as though this whole group mourning and all the talk of healing, closure, etc. may be going too far. I know that all sounds kind of callous and soul-less, but I just read Stephen Ambrose's "Band of Brothers." This is not the first generation to suffer a collective loss at the hands of a madman...
If this story is true, Bruce is no better than the dudes who "cherry-picked" war widows (or even worse, the wives of the guys "over there")."I don't think Coulter is right about anything, but I do think Chris has a point. In the overwhelming grief that accompanies victimization, people tend to confer a vaunted status which becomes sacred and unquestionable (that's as old as Freud, btw, not Ann Coulter). MADD members are another example.
The whole "unless you've been through what I've been through, you don't know and can't question me" mentality silences most people, but it's a straw man. Most of the scientists who voted Pluto off the island yesterday in Prague have never been to Pluto, yet they deep sixed it anyway.
Since the "friendship" between Bruce and this chick started five years ago (and the world is just finding out about it now), it makes you wonder if Patty wasn't snowed by the same "you don't understand, you can't judge" b.s.
But here's a more interesting point:
as we approach the anniversary of Katrina, isn't it interesting in the way the two groups of victims are perceived? The 9/11 families were rightly given their time to grieve and the respect they deserved, but their platform and microphone came mainly because they
were white, educated, middle or upper class people who had the resources to travel to D.C., hold press conferences, write books, start PACs, etc. Contrast that with
the "Katrina Widows" and families. We don't hear anything about that group, do we? The reason is because
poor, black, uneducated and down-trodden doesn't sell soap (or righteousness) quite like white middle class grief does. And white skinny bimbos in cocktail dresses running smack about you doesn't exactly work either.
I'm with Chris in that this may seem harsh, but after watching
Spike Lee's When The Levees Broke documentary on Katrina the past few nights,
it's nauseating to think that the people of New Orleans, who are every bit the victims of death and destruction as the 9/11 families were, are ignored and dismissed, mainly for the same reason most of them died...the color of their skin.Maybe someone should ask Bruce if he's boinking any Katrina widows?
Update: Chris' response: "Well, he played JazzFest this year..."